This is a hard time for many of us, but it's an especially difficult time for families and youth in care who are not able to visit with biological family members.
Camp To Belong-Wisconsin (CTB-WI) put together a list of resources for sibling visitation in this time of social distancing. The resources are mostly free, could also work for family visitation, and would be great for increased and easy connection for siblings even after this season has passed. Feel free to share with anyone you think could use this information.
Digital Communication:
*Fun ideas for digital connection: Play games! Games such as Apples to Apples, charades, Pictionary, hangman, crosswords, 20 questions and many more can easily be adapted to play digitally together over video chat.
Use screen sharing! One user can use the screenshare platform on Zoom or other video conferencing services to access the myriad of experiences that are now being offered online for free. Museums, destinations, buildings, performances, classes and more can now be accessed together as a method of connection and shared experience. Google Arts & Culture is a great resource for tours and classes of all kinds. Bonus: this is a great learning opportunity!
Point to Point Communication:
Snail mail: the ultimate throwback! Everyone loves to receive mail. Does require address exchange, which is worth considering if privacy is a concern. Bonus: learning opportunity for addressing and mailing a letter. According to the WHO, contamination risk of COVID-19 to postal mail is low.
Email: send photos, videos and messages through free providers like Google, Hotmail, Outlook, Yahoo.
Fun and Games:
Virtual game platforms: Pogo, Words With Friends, Draw Something, Trivia Crack, Apple’s Gamepigeon (can be downloaded on Apple phones and tablets), Scattergories, Let’s Play Uno, and many more are free and available via app on many technology platforms. As long as both users have the app they can play together. This is a low-maintenance way to connect and play together. There are other ways to play together using Xbox Live, Nintendo, JackBox and others if all parties have the devices or pay for the subscription already.
Caribu: video conferencing integrated with drawing, games, and children’s books to allow for age appropriate digital connection. This service is free and unlimited for 60 days and is great for young children. Can be accessed via phone or tablet.
House Party: video chat alongside group games, various access points (app on mobile or table, browser), games like Pictionary and “Heads Up!” can be played together, account required, free.
Netflix Party: allows users to watch a movie together and chat at the same time. Requires all parties to have access to a Netflix subscription. Must be used via computer.
Sibling Rivalry & Conflict - from Coalition Connection newsletter
As we refrain from leaving our homes in order to stay physically healthy, we, as parents, need to be emotionally prepared to deal with tensions that may arise from being in such close contact with our families for weeks on end. In addition to not leaving the house for our jobs or school, we have all temporarily lost the freedom to spend time doing what we enjoy outside the house, whether that be sports, the arts, or just hanging out with friends. This leads to boredom and stress. Children who have experienced loss and trauma may have emotions that are running higher than most. Dormant survival instincts may return and present themselves in behaviors such as yelling, blaming, or being confrontational with others.
Here are some tips to help reduce friction between family members and some additional resources to help you.
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